Hi love and lust chasers 💜💦
When you think back to an amazing sexual experience, do you relate it to wearing sexy underwear or trying out a fantasy ❓
We bet it’s none of those. ❌
According to experts, the basic thing that makes sex amazing is being in the moment… ✔️
It’s as simple as that.
At the beginning of a sexual interaction, whether it’s with a new person or your longtime partner, it’s easy to get lost in the heat of the moment and rush to reach orgasm. ⏩
While orgasms are amazing, they should not define how we feel about sex because there are so many beautiful moments to care for before the orgasm… 💦
The little kisses, the discovery of a new body, the different sensations of that skin to skin contact...
Every single one of these can feel thrilling, but only if you can enjoy the moment.
Of course we understand that it’s not always easy to stay in the moment during sex. We can get distracted by things that are out of our control... Or get lost in worries about how our body looks or our performance… 😓
Well where’s the fun of that?
So when that happens, you can bring yourself back to the magic of the moment by having awareness... 😇
And like everything else, raising awareness is like a muscle that can be trained to work better. But keep in mind that if we cannot stay in the moment in our regular life, we cannot stay in the moment during sex. ⚠️
So what to do ❓
Practice that muscle with meditations like the one we specifically prepared for this concept at the top of the page. ☝️
Through this practice, you’ll be able to see when you lose connection with the moment, which is actually the most important step to start being in the moment.
And when you learn how to be more aware, you’ll be able to bring yourself to the presence of your partner, to the pleasures of the moment…
Have fun.
Remember, Biyaku is always here to push you into joy and juiciness! 💜💦
And if you want more, you can find more meditations on our ‘’Discover Your Own Sexuality’’ playlist. Check it out: 👇
At Biyaku, we’ll continue to explore ways to make your sexual life more colorful and juicier. Stay tuned! 💜
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We are Biyaku. Mobile app and Substack’s sexiest publication.
We have simple practices and courses for a juicy love life.
How?
We combine ancient Eastern teachings with a Western approach by the help of experts.
And we provide you with proven techniques and practices that can be game changers for your libido, relationships and sexual life.
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You will have the access to 25+ guided programs, 300+ juicy collections of meditations and practices. Plus, we have many more to come!
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