Hi love and lust chasers 💜💦
We all want to love and to be loved...
And being in love is one of the craziest loves…
Don’t you agree?
However, sometimes love gets us so blindsided that, when we meet someone new, we don’t realize that we are actually two strangers that come face to face. Plus we bring our past experiences, future worries or big expectations into the game.
Of course it’s really nice to have dreams, wishes and plans about love. ✔️
But usually our expectations have very little to do with the person we meet.
And sometimes they take us away from the beauty of the moment.
For example, if we’re looking for a long term relationship, we start imagining the white picket fence house the second we meet someone we like. 🏡
But the truth is that the white picket fence comes when it’s meant to, no matter how much we try to rush it.
Rushing will just move us away from enjoying those first exciting heartbeats. And the same thing goes for sex.
We start by taking our time with those first kisses and touches but then with the heat of the moment, we act faster, arouse our partner quickly and rush to the point of orgasm. ⏩
When we break away from the present moment we become goal oriented, and miss on enjoying those moments of discovering a new body.
Being goal oriented can be useful, but not in love. When we set our minds on a goal, we become stuck. ❌
We wear blinders that prevent us from seeing all the other possibilities of pleasure, joy and fun along the way.
But if we can make an intention to be in the moment to really meet someone, we can enjoy the whole ride. 😊
How do we do that ❓
By opening our awareness to our thoughts and emotions of that moment, and noticing how they might be affecting our experience.
So come along, try out our 10 minute guided meditation prepared by our experts which you can find at the top of the page. ☝️😊
Remember, focusing on expectations, possibilities and goals gives us cloudy judgements.
And we cannot really enjoy exciting moments unless we have a clear blue sky.
Biyaku is always here for your relationships and intimacy! 💜
So, how do you feel ❓
You seem a little aware from here 😊
If you feel like you need to explore more juicyness, you can just move on to our ‘’What the Hell Are Relationships?’’ course to find more exclusive meditative practices!
Check them out: 👇
At Biyaku, we’ll continue to explore ways to deepen your connections with your partner and maintain the spark. Stay tuned! 💜
Who are we?
We are Biyaku. Mobile app and Substack’s sexiest publication.
We have simple practices and courses for a juicy love life.
How?
We combine ancient Eastern teachings with a Western approach by the help of experts.
And we provide you with proven techniques and practices that can be game changers for your libido, relationships and sexual life.
Why subscribe?
You will have the access to 25+ guided programs, 300+ juicy collections of meditations and practices. Plus, we have many more to come!
On Substack, we present the essence of the courses, but you can find the rest in our newsletter.
And you can download our app for the full version.
How can I join the sexiest community ever?
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