Hi love and lust chasers ππ¦
Arham has been meditating for the last 40 years. You heard that right. π§
Maybe most of us werenβt even able to say a word yet back then.Β
His journey with meditation started when working as a professional basketball coach. As he no longer wanted to drown in stress from such a high demanding job, he traveled around India, Europe and the US in search of the secrets behind ancient love making techniques and peace of mind.
He spent years studying with many gurus and experts in the areas of meditation, breathwork and Tantra and heβs been a source of inspiration for Biyaku, where we benefit from his expertise and wise teachings for our courses and juicy practices. π
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So we figured, why not ask him about ways to improve our sex life β
Afterall, everyone is looking for ways to really live an incredibly fulfilling love lifes. β€οΈ π¦
Here are the 8 key points from Arham on love and sexuality.
1. Being in the moment is the essential key for good sex. βοΈ
Can you have good sex, like really good sex, while thinking about what to make for dinner? We bet you canβt.
Being in the moment during sex means being %100 aware of the harmony between your and your partnerβs body. π
And according to Arham, thatβs the key to really amazing sex.
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2. Increase your pleasure with your breath. βοΈ
Breathing intentionally and with the correct techniques can be incredible to boost your sex drive.
Imagine your breath taking a journey from the genitals to the heartβ¦ Doesnβt that sound incredibly hot?
3. Pelvic movement is the firing energy behind your libido. βοΈ
Listen to the man who has it all figured out.
Arham says that good sex is all about movement and the fluidity of the body.
If you can let your pelvis move freely, rocking back and forth, arching and tilting, the pleasure youβll get from sex will be multiplied by tenfold. You can practice that with the ββQueen Pelvisββ series at Biyaku.Β π
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4. Be loud in bed to spread pleasure to your whole body. βοΈ
Dirty talk is good in sex, but whatβs even better is letting out natural, wild sounds that connect you with your primal side. Donβt be afraid to make some noise in between the sheets!
5. Donβt be orgasm oriented in relationships and sex. βοΈ
Some of the key lessons from Arhamβs teachings on love and sex come from the Tantric approach to lovemaking.
He says that as much as orgasms are amazing, they also lead to a loss of sexual energy.
But if we can learn to enjoy the little steps of pleasure during sex and not become goal oriented, we can really connect with our partner through the heart. π
6. Good relationships donβt get stuck in the maybe zone. βοΈ
When we asked Arham about the golden key to good relationships, the most eye opening thing he told us was the maybe zone.*
*: Click on the text to see our ββ βMaybeβ Zone: The source of discomfort in your relationship! ββ meditation.
In any relationship, getting a yes answer to a question is great, getting a no answer usually sucks.
But the worst is maybe!
Ask for a clear answer, even if itβs one you donβt want to hear and move away from the maybe zone where expectations get projected.
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7. Hold on to your friends tightly if you want better sexual relationships. βοΈ
Donβt you find your guy more attractive after he comes home from a night out with his boys?
Well thereβs a reason for that, the energy youβll get from spending time with your same sex friends is like no other. Do this meditation* at Biyaku and keep your friends close to you, both for your social life and love life.
*: Click on the text to see our ββSpend More Time With Your Friends To Be A Better Lover πββ meditation.
8. There is no ideal partner. βοΈ
Stop wasting your time looking for one!
Arham explains that when you look for the ideal partner, you also bring in a baggage of expectations that are never met. So listen to him and learn to work on yourself first, then youβll see that anyone can be the ideal partner. π
So here are the key lessons we learned from Arham, and we believe they will change your love life for the better.
Afterall, this is a guy who has spent more than half of his life devouring this subject.
So join Biyaku today, and check out our exclusive audio and video contents prepared through the guidance of Arham. π
Most importantly, have fun!
Remember, Biyaku is always here to push you into joy and awareness! ππ¦
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