Why you should get relationship advice from a 70 year old guy 🧓
It will be more forward thinking than you’ll ever expect. 💭
When it comes to relationship advice, who do you often turn to? 🤔
A friend who’s been dating around? 🕺
Your parents who’ve been married for more than 30 years? 👨👩👧👦
An older sister or brother who just knows how to get the best looking partner? 👫
We’re sure they can all give you some good ideas like don’t sleep on the first date, let him pay for everything or don’t talk about your ex. And depending on their current relationship status, how successful or happy they’ve been in past relationships, you will definitely hear some valid advice. 💬
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But don’t you feel like they can never really be too objective? 🤷♂️
At Biyaku, we think that someone who can look at modern relationship problems from a Tantric point of view can give you the best advice. 🧘♂️
That’s why we sat down with Arham and asked him about the most commonly asked questions about modern day relationships. 💬
So who is Swami Arham you ask? 🤔
Arham is a Tantra and meditation master who’s been meditating for more than 40 years and working in the fields of relationships, love, meditation and breathwork. 🧘♂️
He is a no BS guy who gets to the core of everything with his Tantra based outlook. 🙅♂️
For example, say you’re meeting people through dating apps. You swipe right and left like it’s a game only to figure out that no one out there satisfies you. 😕
Is it because there is just nobody who’s good enough, handsome enough, smart enough or rich enough for you? 🤔
Or are you unsatisfied with something that is more about you? 🤷♀️
Arham says that the satisfaction you seek from the outside world is temporary. According to the Tantric point of view, you have to be responsible for your own satisfaction and seek for the real satisfaction that comes from the deeper, more spiritual experiences. 🌌
And what about searching for the ideal partner? 🕵️♂️
Well we hate to break it to you, but Arham says that there is no ideal partner. Because if it is ideal, then it is not real. 🚫
We all have an image about that ideal partner, it comes from an idea, a set of expectations. And when we meet someone who seems like our ideal partner, we put our expectations on them. 💭
And then you know what happens. 😞
One day, and hopefully this is sooner than later, you realize that they are not what you thought they were. 😔
Then comes deception and frustration. 😣
So what do you do then? 🤷♂️
Well you’ve got two choices. ✌️
Either you stop the relationship and look for another partner - another ideal one and the loop continues… 🔄
Or you decide to stay in the relationship and learn how to be in the relationship with frustration. 🤔
Yes it might be tough to work through those hard feelings in a relationship. But, if at the end of the day you see that you are willing to stay, that’s when you’ll know that they’re the one for you. 💖
Because there is no ideal, there are just expectations. So will you be willing to accept and be with someone for who they are? 🤔
Our collection Relationship Q&A with a Tantra Master covers many more topics like these, and more juicy ones like why you shouldn’t be obsessed about orgasm. 🍑
Go ahead and check out the rest of the collection on our app and get some advice from a guy who has figured it out. You might be surprised by how eye opening some of his words might be. After all, he’s been around the block for a while. 🌟