Who Is To Blame When Things Get Rocky in A Relationship? π€
Relationships go through different waves, but it takes two to make it and to break it. Continue to see more...
Hi love and lust chasers ππ¦
Every relationship has its bad times as much as the good times.Β β
Yes we know, this can be pretty hard to hear as we always want the good times.
But letβs be honest, thatβs not realistic.
Relationships are organic, they evolve with people, with time. They get affected by outside factors too.
So itβs normal for them to ride high and low waves, and sometimes to end.Β π
More people face this dilemma than you might imagine.
The reason might be the work stress, responsibility of kids, or more difficult things like trust and honesty issues.
Over time, things can become less exciting and even monotonous, putting a distance between couples.Β π
This can be an emotional distance which is already difficult to deal with.
And this can be a costly distance to the relationship in several contexts if not worked on.
But the worst is when flirting and physical affection get included in this distance. Because then, sex gets put on the backburner. ποΈ
It becomes a boring routine in the relationship, something to do just because we feel like we have to.
When that happens, one tries to find a reason to blame the other person. Because who would want to admit that they have anything to do with the cause of the problems?
Not many of usβ¦ That would require self awareness and ownership of oneβs faults.Β
Remember, it takes two to make a relationship work. And it takes two to break it.Β π
It doesnβt matter what the reasons for the relationship to lose its spark are. Since youβre here, it means you are facing this dilemma and wanting to work on it.Β
So we encourage you to look at your relationship with all its good and bad sides. Remember that neither you nor your partner is %100 guilty.
There might have been times when you felt you were the right one, and trust us there are times where your partner felt that way. There might have been mistakes, but they were probably the result of the two of you.Β
So make an intention to put those bad memories, the anger, resentment or unrealistic expectations aside, and look at your relationship with fresh eyes to really bring back the sexy spark. πͺ
Intention is a good start, but if you want to take action, we have a whole playlist that can help you gain awareness and understanding about the different aspects of a healthy relationship. π
You can find the playlist below. π
Enjoyβ¦
Remember, Biyaku is always here to push you into joy and awareness! ππ¦
At Biyaku, weβll continue to explore ways to deepen your connections with your partner and maintain that spark. Stay tuned! π
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