Point of No Return: The concept every man needs to keep in mind during sex ✔️
Learn the ways to control premature ejaculation and improve your sex life...
Hi love and lust chasers 💜💦
Here’s a question to the guys out there. 🧍♂️
How many times have you been in a situation where you couldn’t control the timing of your ejaculation and orgasmed before your partner ❓
If it happens pretty frequently, you may want to get familiar with the concept of point of no return, and how controlling it, might be a life changer for your sex life. ☀
A sexual interaction is meant to be a shared experience of pleasure, joy and arousal.
But typically in a sexual interaction between a man and a woman, the man reaches a moment of increased pleasure that he cannot control anymore, which is called the point of no return, much before the woman approaches orgasm.
He then ejaculates, and in order to start again, he needs to pull back and rest.
Well, that can be a total buzzkiller for the woman, because it is known that women need a little bit more time to be aroused than men.
When the male partner ejaculates too quickly, the heat of the moment gets interrupted with a pause, and maybe even a stop.
The sexual energy fizzles away because the two partners find themselves in different timelines, and lovemaking comes to an end. ❌
But what women want are men who can last long in bed without being fixated on the orgasm.
Because during an orgasm, ejaculation creates a loss of sexual energy in the body. But if you can learn how to lengthen the pleasure you get, but also the pleasure you give to your woman, you can keep that energy alive and become incredible at lovemaking. 🤤
To learn more about how to become such a man, check out our new course ‘‘The Man of Long Nights’’ on our app. 👁️
So there are a few things you can do when you get to the point of no return. They are super easy to do, and are great tools you can keep in your backpocket.
Start doing your Kegels ✔️
It is well known that Kegel exercises strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, but it is not just for women.
Men have also been doing Kegels for a long time because it is shown that they can improve sexual function and the control you have over ejaculation.
So include them into your life just like you would exercise your body.
All you need is just a couple minutes of practice a few times a week. And at Biyaku, we have many Kegel practices that are suitable for both men and women. 💜
Start-stop technique ✔️
This is exactly how it sounds.
During intercourse when you feel that you’re near climax, you’ll just stop and take a break until the urge disappears.
This may feel difficult at the heat of the moment, but creating an emotional connection with your partner in that moment will be helpful.
You can create eye contact with her to guide her to slow down, or you can also place your hands on each other’s heart and breathe together for a few moments.
Then continue and repeat this as you need, but keeping in mind your partner’s pleasure level too.
Ask your partner to slow you down ✔️
When things get too hot, you can ask your partner to help you with edging.
This is a great opportunity for open communication and a way to bring you two closer. Here are three things she can do:
She can apply pressure at the base of your penis with her hands for 30 seconds when you’re about to ejaculate.
She can hold the bottom of your penis with an OK sign (👌) and let her hand slide up your penis. Then she’ll slide the other hand all the way up and alternate like this for a little bit.
Here’s the simplest one; when you’re at the point of no return she can gently pull your balls down to delay your orgasm.
So there you have it!
Of course techniques are great because you can rely on them, but remember that approaching lovemaking with the correct mindset is actually the first step to lengthen sex.
To become a man who can have control over his ejaculation, get familiar with the tantric way of lovemaking, which is all about slowing down and enjoying the small stops of pleasure along the way instead of being orgasm obsessed. 🤤
To learn about that, you can check out our ‘‘Tantric Way to Orgasm’’ collection at Biyaku app. 💜
Or, you can see the essence of the collection below: 👇
So initiate lovemaking from a place of emotion and connection and use these techniques whenever you feel the need.
A shift in your mindset with these techniques combined will make your sex life much more fulfilling. 🔥
Remember, Biyaku is always here to push you into joy and awareness! 💜💦
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