How Your Inner Male and Female Can Change the Way You Make Love 💜
How Your Inner Male and Female Can Change the Way You Make Love 💜
Why understanding how the masculine and feminine energies work is important for your sex life?
Hi love and lust chasers 💜💦
Do you want to be an incredible lovemaker ❓
Assuming that 99% of humans will say yes to this, we’ll cut to the chase as to how...
So we’re not here to teach you about a specific way of touching your partner, or to advise you about fantasies and kinky games.
This is a bit deeper than that.
We’re here to tell you about the concept of male and female energies in Tantra and how understanding them can help you become a better lover. ❤
According to Tantra, we are all a gender by nature, and on top of our biological gender, we each carry a little bit of both the male and female energies.
But, our biological gender doesn’t define us, it is the energies within our being who makes us who we truly are. ✔️
This is not about girls who are tomboys or guys who have a soft side.
This is more about how these energies get reflected in the way we act towards people, the way we make love, our decision making and how we even carry ourselves in life.
And becoming aware of how these energies exist within us is something we all need, regardless of our gender. 😇
So how could understanding these energies make you a better lover and how do they work in sexual relationships ❓
Let’s look at it from the perspective of Tantra. 🧘
The male energy is more rigid, controlling and analytical. It loves logic and effectiveness. In people whose masculine energy is higher, a more goal oriented approach comes into play.
And when it comes to love and sex, the masculine energy moves from the penis, initiating everything from a more raw place.
Can you guess how that is reflected in sexual interactions?
Well, people with a high masculine energy will make love with one thing in mind. Making their partner come.
Of course orgasms are amazing, but when lovemaking begins with just that goal, it can also become one dimensional. ❌
So if this type of person can also tap into their feminine energy, they can start getting pleasure from every stop along the way, transforming love making into a journey that becomes more about the experience than the end goal. ✔️
And when we look at the female energy, we see fluidity, intuition and a nurturing approach. The female energy prioritizes feelings rather than logic.
In people whose feminine energy is higher, we can see more compassion and understanding. And in love and sex, the feminine energy moves from a softer place, from the heart.
And how is that reflected in sexual interactions?
So people with a high female energy might not be able to express their desires firmly. ❌
They might let everything go with the flow to the point of finding themselves in a position where they become codependent.
Well, what’s the fun of that in sex?
But if a person with a high feminine energy could connect with their masculine side, they can still enjoy the natural flow of sex but also be confident in their boundaries and desires. ✔️
So what can you do?
Of course you can’t just say, ‘‘I’m going to tune up my feminine energy so I can understand my partner better…’’ Or ‘‘I’ll say exactly what I want because people like strong willed characters!’’
It just doesn’t work that way.
The key, as always, is to have open, clear communication with your partner. And with yourself. 💬
Ask your partner questions, talk about your wishes, your worries…
Those will help you see how they carry their energies and how you need to approach them.
And how to understand yourself better? By doing awareness practices. 😇
Guided meditations and breathwork that connect you with your sexuality are incredible ways to check in with your inner self. 🔗
So, we recommend that you check out the practices at Biyaku and see how your inner male and female work together. 🥂💜
By doing so, you can understand the balance of your inner energies, become a better partner to your lover and live a fulfilling and enriching sex life.
Remember, Biyaku is always here to push you into joy and awareness! 💜💦
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